What Matters Most

Tales of the Ken & Lillian Martin family

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Christmas 2010



Grandpa & Grandma on Christmas day

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Special Holiday Treat

When we learned that a JAARS airplane would be doing a Missions at the Airport appearance at the airport in Seward, Nebraska, we jumped at the chance to get a ride. Dad sat in the copilot's seat and three young girls joined us for their very first plane ride. Needless to say, they were excited and so were these two Martin boys. These planes provide a wonderful service getting in to hard to reach areas and providing supplies, transportation and communication to assist missionaries, especially those serving with Wycliffe Bible Translators.

Sunday, July 4, 2010

Happy 3rd Birthday, Avalon!!

Avalon Joy Steger
July 4, 2007

Saturday, July 3, 2010

Celebrating a 66th Wedding Anniversary


Here's a formula for enjoying time with family celebrating a significant milestone.


First, Steph brings a fine and interactive board game for everyone to play together. There were three main rules. Everybody must draw, guess and laugh a little.




Then add some willing family members and let the

good times begin! Grandma draws parts of a car

and Steph drew an octopus as one of the things in

the ocean. (Well, at least Janell managed to guess

that it was an octopus.) Tom struggled with drawing asparagus but the guys still got all eight vegetables.



Time also allowed for good conversation and many laughs. In the end, each side won one game and the evening ended in a draw. All winners!

Such an evening highly recommended.





Happy 66th Anniversary, Mom & Dad, Grandma & Grandpa!!








Friday, July 2, 2010

Happy 3rd Birthday, Micah!!

Micah Dugger
July 2nd, 2007

Monday, June 28, 2010

Happy 29th Steph!!


A wonderful time was had by all when we gathered in Lincoln to celebrate Steph's 29th birthday!

Sunday, June 27, 2010

Happy Birthday, Kala!!

Kala Nichols (& family)
June 21st

Happy Anniversary, Kyle & Tana!!!

Kyle & Tana Freedman
June 19, 2004

**hopefully we'll get a picture to post soon!

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Happy 6th Anniversary, Zach & Angela!!!

Zach & Angela Dugger
June 12th, 2004

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Welcome Acelyn!!


Acelyn Renee Jue
May 28, 2010

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Happy Birthday, Brad!!


Bradley Regier
June 1, 1975

Monday, May 24, 2010

Happy Birthday, Abby!!!

Abby Mercier
May 23

And happy belated anniversary to you & Clair.... (Aug. 12, 2007)

Friday, May 21, 2010

Monday, May 17, 2010

Thursday, May 6, 2010

Sunday, May 2, 2010

Lincoln Marathon 2010








Congratulations Todd & Brett!!

They successfully finished the half-marathon in Lincoln on May 2, 2010. A beautiful day for a little run on the streets of Lincoln. At the five mile point, they passed Tom's first aid station but didn't need any services. They were greeted there also by faithful supporters, Steph, Carter, Addie and Turner. The finish was the 50 yard line of Memorial Stadium. Way to go guys!!


Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Happy 3rd Anniversary, Nate & Leslie!!

Nate & Leslie Rutter
April 22, 2007

Happy Birthday, Brodie!!!

Brodie Nichols
April 21st

Thursday, April 8, 2010

Monday, April 5, 2010

Friday, April 2, 2010

Happy Birthday, Zach!!

Zachariah Dugger
April 2, 1982

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Happy BELATED Birthday, RYAN!!!

RYAN FREEDMAN
(w/ G&G and Marj this past summer)
February 19, 1986


Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Happy 4th Birthday, Carter!!

Carter T. Hohlen
March 23, 2006

Monday, March 22, 2010

Happy 10th Birthday, Jordyn!!

Jordyn Regier
March 22, 2000

Friday, March 12, 2010

Monday, March 8, 2010

Happy Birthday, Arja!!


Arja Regier
March 8th

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Happy 90th Birthday, Grandma!!!!!!!


There’s not much left in the little Nebraska town of Loretta where Lillian was born 90 years ago. Not much but memories.

Memories of an Irish Dad who was the Sunday School Superintendant and County Treasurer. And of a Scottish Mom, the ninth of 10 children, who took over her husband’s job as treasurer when he died at only 42. Of the baby sister who died just three weeks later and of subsequent two months spent living in a school dormitory during the week, and friends over the weekend, while her Mother recovered from pneumonia.


Lillian grew up knowing about the Lord, but it wasn’t until she was 20 that He became her Lord. She was playing piano at church one day and went forward for an altar call.


Her faith was encouraged by a young man she had met sometime earlier. A young basketball player named Ken who always managed to sit in the front middle seat next to her when she volunteered to drive his team to one of their games.


What was her first impression of him?


“Must’ve been good,” she said. Ken had accepted Christ as his savior prior to Lillian, and she said, “He was an influence on me. He was a good guy.”


While World War 2 waged, Ken and Lillian dated. The were engaged on Valentine’s Day, 1944, and married July 3. That was sixty-five-and-a-half years ago.


What is the secret to a lasting marriage?


“You trust each other and depend on the Lord,” Lillian said. “We’re just thankful that we do have the Lord. He has met our need, we knew He was just part of our life.”


Just a few weeks after they were married, Ken left for boot camp.


Two months later, Lillian moved to Mineral Wells, Texas, to be with Ken while he trained. In January, he was deployed to Europe. She didn’t hear from him for a few weeks, but on Valentine’s Day, a year from the day they were engaged, Lillian received a dozen roses.


“I haven’t gotten any since,” she said, “but those lasted awhile.”


So began a difficult time in Lillian’s life. Alone in Texas, and without friends, Lillian’s relationship with the Lord grew. It was a very intimate time in her faith.


And God provided for her.


There was a Lieutenant Colonel’s wife with two daughters and another on the way who needed a babysitter and help with the housekeeping . Lillian moved in with the family and stayed with them while Ken was overseas.


A year later, he returned. They lived in South Carolina three years while Ken attended Bob Jones and then they moved back to Nebraska where they were involved in Bible clubs around the state. Ken, a pilot, would fly around the state, landing at different rural schools and take kids for a plane ride as a reward for memorizing scripture.


Lillian meanwhile, was home with three children. After the fourth, she said, Ken had to give up the plane.


“We needed a better form of transportation,” she said.


While transportation may have been a source of concern, the challenges of motherhood never seemed to overwhelm her.


“I didn’t worry about it I guess, I just took them one at a time.”


She enjoyed all the ages and stages as her five children grew and when issues did arise, she knew where to turn.


“You have to trust in the Lord and keep on keeping on,” Lillian said.


It was during those years of child-rearing that Lillian found what is still a special verse to her today.


Psalm 37:4, “Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart.” It reminded her that she just needed to keep depending on the Lord.


While their family grew, God led Ken and Lillian from place to place. Ken pastored in Curtis, Nebraska for five years. They lived at Maranatha Bible Camp for a few years as groundskeepers. In Central City, Ken was a boys’ dorm supervisor at Nebraska Christian High School, and yes Lilllian and her five kids, four of which are girls, also lived in the dorm for a time.


After their four oldest graduated from Nebraska Christian, the family moved to Denver. One evening, while downtown, their youngest daughter Rachel met some unusual-looking men, engaged them in conversation and within a few hours consented to join their cult. She disappeared from her family’s life for a year-and-a-half.


“We didn’t know where she was,” Lillian said. “It was the hardest time in my life and we really had to lean on Him.”


After months of searching and distributing fliers, Rachel was found. By the grace of God, some family and friends managed to get her away from the cult for deprogramming and a re-commitment of her life to Christ.


In the following years, the Martins began working their way back east to Nebraska where they operated a Christian bookstore for 10 years in Chadron, before moving to Ord and eventually, Lincoln.


Now ready to celebrate her 90th birthday, Lillian enjoys reading, especially Christian romances. She and Ken keep a book or magazine in the car and whenever they go anywhere, even to the grocery store, she reads aloud to him.


Lillian also likes to travel, especially to see her family, scattered all over the U.S. – Florida, Idaho and Michigan.


She says that God is still teaching her to trust Him and that after 70 years of knowing Him, there’s still more to learn.


“I need more Bible study,” Lillian said. “I’ve enjoyed and needed it. I don’t know everything yet. Some of my kids know more than I do.”


And speaking of those kids, all five are committed believers. And from those five have sprung 18 grandkids and 23 great-grandkids, with two more on the way. “I pray every day for all of them,” Lillian said.

**This was put together by Adeana Friesen (with Grandma's help) and read at our Tuesday morning bible study this week as they helped celebrate her birthday!!

Monday, March 1, 2010

Happy 20th birthday, Esther!!

The baby of the cousins is 20 this week!!!!!

Esther Naomi
March 2, 1990

Happy Birthday, Uncle Jerry!!!

Jerry Regier
March 1st

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Happy Birthday, Aunt Rae!!

Rachel Kay
February 23 1955

Monday, February 15, 2010

Happy Birthday, Jodi!!

Jodi R. Jue
February 15th

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Happy Birthday, Janell!!

Janell Diane
February 7, 1953